Limbo over, now separated but in lockdown (part 3)

[Pommy99]

Ok thanks all, so I havent replied in 3 hrs. Why do they do this? I'm moving forward as best I can then they try and drag you back again and all the emotions resurface. All I know is that I got my fingers REALLY burnt 4 weeks ago and I am not about to make myself available or tell him that I'm still holding out for him. Right now, I dont even know what I want - but it is nonetheless unsettling to have him play those games again.

And since his massive u-turn, he's made it clear about what he's looking for, to quote him "I want someone who is fun and confident", so yes, he is looking - he may not have got beyond his own mind, but in his mind, he knows that he is looking for someone else.

When he came round 4 weeks ago, before he announced he wanted to come back, his initial questions were to find out if I had moved on. So , I feel like it's a repeat of 4 weeks ago - same question "have I moved on".