Ok so the problem I have with MWDs instructions on this is the assumption that you are going to everything else right including detach. If your going to do the in-house separation thing then you have to have the attitude of ok you are going to do your thing and I’m gonna go do mine. You split time with who is responsible for the kids and when he is you are out of the house and he has no idea where you are or what your doing. He does his own laundry, he shares the cooking responsibilities and you follow Sandis rules to a T.
You make it clear that you are taking this time to decide you really wanting moving forward. In-house separation with a spouse is extremely difficult and will take its toll on you. Please read what Ginger posted to you again. I know you can’t see it now but I promise you will someday. You are worth so much more then you know and will realize it someday. I’d look to come over and punch your husband in the face and teach him how to treat the mother of his children.
Read Bluewaves thread when you have time. She reconciled with her husband when she stopped tolerating his BS.
