And then it was over.

[BlueSea]

May22 - Thank you for checking in on me, this is a great piece, thanks for sharing it - I am going to put this on my phone too. I don't want to be in competition with her. The words he used made me feel that way.

CWarrior - appreciate your ideas for GAL, I really think trying the guitar is something I want to do, never would have thought of that. Honestly, right now, I am planning one hour at a time. Get up. Go brush teeth. Get dressed....and get thru the day. I think I will add hitting Craigslist for a guitar.

No relationship talks ever! You have to give him time and space. You have to not let him walk all over.

LH19 - I get it, and I knew better, no R talks EVER! got it. I will give him time and space, to figure his stuff out. BUT... how do I not let him walk all over me? I mean, per MWD infidelity chapter, he gets to stay in the house and actively have his OW. So that part is confusing for me because that IS walking all over me. So, what did you mean LH19?

But those were the MWD instructions - wait it out - this A will most likely fizzle. There is no more exciting secrecy adrenaline rushes - the wife knows and he knows he is doing the wrong thing. He is here with his family, and at some point, OW will start asking for more time and start demands - and the glow will be over and just not worth it anymore. That is what I am doubling down on.