Chris 73, this is an awesome post!! We have LBSs here every day that are acting out of fear. I wrote a post, its a sticky above, called How do you DB when you love your spouse? The point of it is that fear drives us to do the wrong things

But what I love best about your post is the happy ending. That you've found peace in your life and have learned to be happy by yourself. R or D, that's what it is really about. Learning that your happiness is your responsibility, and that your spouse's happiness is their responsibility.

Thanks for posting this!


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018