Originally Posted by Mumin
She's avoiding things SO MUCH and now she is trying to be cheerful, nice, beautiful etc around me.
Makes detachment and focus on me harder, and sort of pisses me off..

Would it be better if she was spewing at you and calling you all kinds of names?

Originally Posted by Mumin
You think we're friends now??? .

That's up to you.

Originally Posted by Mumin
Not sure I will ever want to be her friend.
Will be considering if my "NC" is forever (apart from kids stuff of course)..

Why borrow tomorrow's problems today?
Originally Posted by Mumin
Also my brother has apparently been talking abit to SIL (they actually used to date(weird I know))..

Dude your sitch gets weirder and weirder
Originally Posted by Mumin
Apparently SIL is not talking that much to her sister (my W) and she is afraid W will regret everything.

Maybe maybe not. I bet it is more likely you regret trying to hold on so tight.