I also want to just add that the reason why the push-pull of detachment feels like a ‘game’ to me is probably just because I am not very good at it. I’m sure that the vets would argue that there is nothing about it that is a game (afterall, just as May said, it’s not to punish or reward the WAS). So maybe take that comment of mine with a grain of salt. It’s just my newness to this all.
