Greetings everyone. Its been a while so time for an update.
D has been signed and finalized. Dust has settled and things have been calm.
Her R with OM fizzled slowly and is now over. She also lost her job around that time. We have talked a few times and I gave the typical "sorry for the tough times" . she did come onto me a bit and asked about my R, even asked if she could move in with me if needed. I said no. She surprisingly has not asked for financial help...yet, despite a mound of CC debt. She is attempting to reconnect with her family and I still get blamed for creating a wedge. Also, days after R was over she began dating a neighbor. She has done SOME work on herself but left a marriage into an R, then straight into another R. He is at least stable and seems to be a good guy, opposite of OM 1.
As for me, my R is going strong. Home life with the kids is going well and we are about to start summer. Hopefully we can take a vacation once things open back up.
Things I'm wondering
Why did she run to me when near rock bottom? It lasted about a week and then she put up another wall.
She seems to bounce right back into relationships and hasn't done much work on herself. Still blames others for her problems, unable to accept criticism or responsibility, etc... I don't understand why she just can't be alone. Is this R doomed?
