Thanks, LH, I needed this. I spoke with a friend last night that knows our situation and was given the same advice as you gave. It doesn’t make it easier, but I feel more confident in my wait it out approach. I also wrote a long list of all the considerations we would need to negotiate in the event of a D. Our life and lifestyle is complicated and it was pages long. I don’t plan to do anything with that list just yet, but making it made me feel more empowered and less of a victim of my circumstance. Again, I am so grateful for the wise voices on this forum.
