Did you sign away custody? If the kittens will lure her to your place more, and you expect her to choose to move-in at some point, it sounds like that may not have happened.. meaning you may have custody rights you can exercise if you want. Maybe a question for your new and improved attorney! I'm confident my custody over my D15 won't drop to zero if my ex-wife gets cats, an ice cream machine, AND a PS4! She'd have a say. She wouldn't decide.
I've signed nothing. H is thrilled when I have D14 because then he doesn't have to DO anything for her. D14 is out of school so she's up all night and sleeps all day so I don't see her much now. Getting kittens will motivate her to come over more since right now there is nothing to do at my house that she can't do at hers.
This weekend D14 sent me a picture of his empty fridge and a dead mouse in her room. He attempts to feed her dinner so she isn't starving. It is still her choice to stay there until I can get a bigger place. I can't make her leave.
