I love this site. I check it daily. Because it gave so much back to me.. But not in the way i expected. I came here looking for the magic bullet to get the ex back. I learnt so much more - self improvement , self respect, where it went wrong, and how to avoid this next time around..
By the looks of your posts, you did very little of this...
Look at Phoenix9s recent post as to why you dont introduce your kids into a relationship in such a short time period. It's not fair on the kids !
I just read your post and everything you have done is the mirror of my wayward ( ironically who has serious Narc tendancies ) - she introduced my daughters to her partner the week she left - it really affected the girls.
You took no time to heel and threw yourself into another relationship, without a thought for the kids.
My personal opinion 6 - 12 months min before involving children - they dont want to see a revolving door of partners ( you are still with your new partner, so thats not the case, but it does happen ) - you should be their rock... I learn from my wayward - i listen to the kids and see all the mess ups she makes - and ensure i dont do the same
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.
