To Ginger's point, my W was 11 when her parents D'd. One of the hardest things she went through was being introduced to SO's of both her father's and mother's. And age doesn't matter. It is a difficult adjust of kids of any age.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018