Ginger. It did happen so fast. I didn’t expect to have someone in my life so quick either. You mentioned about my GF getting my attention over my D. Most of the time my GF gives me plenty of time with just my kids. She is good like that. I know my D sees this woman in my life like the enemy to her mom, but that isn’t my fault. My ex is the one who wanted the divorce. I have moved on and maybe my GF and I have moved quick, but that’s just how it went. I am looking for a psychologist for my D and I to go to. I really want to work this out with her. I love my kids so much. I hope this new therapy will work with her.

As far as the ex and I it has been great. There is basically no contact anymore. It was impossible trying to speak to her. It had to be her way or else it would be a problem. Overall it’s so sad it all had to get to this point. I have read a lot of stories on here and a lot of you have gone through some real hard times. But it looks like my ex is one of the top crazy ones on here.


M:42 XW:41
T:19 M: 15
D:13 S:10
BD: 8/10/18
Moved out: 8/18
Moved in: 9/18/18
Moved out: 4/22/19
D papers signed 11/4/19
D final 3/18/20