Hi Wooba, oh hugs to you. You handled all of that like a rockstar, such grace! I would not have been so level headed.
Is this the first time that D was discussed so solidly between you two? Did you get any warning that he was going to talk to his parents or your children about it? Or are you finding out how resolved he is through these interactions? Either way, you sure did an amazing job of handling your conversation with him.
Originally Posted by wooba
Threw a pity party for himself also...talked about how he hasn't been sleeping well, the process of writing the agreement is excruciating...etc. I acknowledged that it must be hard and thanked him for doing the grunt work
You are a saint. I am so sick of hearing how poorly H slept, how his anxiety is through the roof trying to decide whether or not to D me. How hard it all is for him. 'Really?' I want to say sarcastically, 'that must be SO hard for you.' You are able to THANK him. Well done.
