Midlife wife crisis14

[Wolfman]

Hey everyone. It’s been a while. So much has happened in my life. Let me tell you what a ride it’s been the last 2 months. Let’s say, I have been standing up to my ex and it’s been so difficult. She has made life so hard. Let me tell you guys a little. At the end of March with this whole pandemic I had to work from home like everyone else, so I needed my computer it was at her house. I let it stay there because she claimed she needed to get her “stuff” off the computer 2 months earlier. So, one Monday morning at the end of March I text my ex that I wanted my computer back and that I would pick it up when I get the kids. She text me I can’t have it, I can get it on Friday, told her that was unacceptable. I am going to abbreviate a lot of this. We went back and forth and finally she said she would drop it off at my house. That evening. She text me she was going to leave my computer at the curb. Again I told her that was unacceptable to put it on my porch. She can stomping up to my front door, banged on it very aggressively. When I opened the door I asked her to hand it to me and I had some documents to give her. She said where are my documents. I said just put the computer down and I will get the documents. She dropped the computer and broke it. I didn’t know that at the moment. I went and got her documents, they were in a folder so I threw it on the lawn. She was so offended that she lunges to take the computer back, I stepped in front of her and grabbed the computer and ran into my house. She flung the screen door open breaking it off the hinge and tried to force herself into my home. My GF had to push back on the main door and lock her out. She continued standing on my porch cursing and yelling. I had to wait for her to go back to her car and then I let my son out of the house. My D unfortunately saw all of that. Well the next day I was served with a refrain from order. She claims I grabbed her and threw her back. So the next day I got one against her. Well now she can’t go back on her lie, so now we pick up and drop off our kids at the police station. If she just would have given me my computer to begin with, but she tried to control me and the minute I stand up to her she gets crazy. At this point the ex and I barely communicate which is nice, less drama.

I am currently living with my GF. My son is great with her but my D hates me and my GF. It’s been so hard with my D. She basically she does not want a father, I’m not kidding about this. My ex is dating and the BF is always over there. I got a hold of my D cell phone and went through it. She had a conversation to her mom about him being there all the time and shoving him down their throats. She has only been dating this guy 3 months and has him over all the time.But to protect her mom she will tell me she likes him and he is funny and nice. She could have brought home a bum on the street and she would have loved him. My GF is so good to my kids, she constantly goes out of her way to give my kids what they want. I just miss my little girl. Everything is just a mess, I feel horrible that my kids are going through this. Hey here have been so many other things but I will talk about another day. It’s great to be back.