Sage,

Thank you for visiting..and reaffirming that this is all normal!

HoldingOn,

I'll be over there in a sec!

KAW,

Thank you for the suggestions!

You said:

Keep to "I" statements. By explaining that you want to
wait because you are concerned about your health
during the pregnancy is enough of an explaination and let
it drop after that. How he feels about it is up to him
and you should allow him to remain an open book and
not suggest how he might react.


Oh Boy. Have I mentioned that I'm dense sometimes?!

I read this and say, doh....I should have realized that!!

Probably part of my black/white thinking struggles.

I NEED this stuff to be pointed out to me! Thank you sir, may I have another?

Hugs to all!


PIB