Separated

[Liz11]

Hey Sam, just commenting to say that I completely understand why you decided to hold that in. I've had lots of times during this entire rollercoaster that I haven't felt like expressing certain things to certain people at certain times, often because of the sheer, I don't know, volume of everything. Going through this experience is crushing, and you have every right to process things through with different groups of people at different paces. That said, I'm glad you put it out there when you were ready. I think it's helpful for you, and selfishly its helpful for those of us (myself included) who read other people's situations for thoughts, comfort, etc., especially when they seem -- for lack of a better phrase -- "further along" in things. I'm glad you and your H are still working through things, too.