Thanks A LOT AS, Ovr and Vapo!

In fact I hope we can come to a place where we can share kids stuff. But she has a long way to go for that to happen and so do I (BD, detach, etc). So for now I will not share or share very little. We'll see how she handles it.
Mothers day is approaching where we live and it is my day with the kids. Wont do anything but prob let the kids call mom (who probably wont be home).

Quote
How's work? How's GAL? How's your personal growth?

Having a bit of a hard time getting full focus at work but handling it. They let my negotiate my bonus to be lowered and increase my pay which will enables me to buy the house or buy something else thats nice. Banks don't care about bonuses it seems (Unless you get it like every month, 10-12 months per year).
GAL is ok, was supposed to go with my brother in his van last night but he went with his GF. So I went out to dinner with a friend and then treated myself with a night at a hotel. Was really nice! Reading NGS and contemplating my childhood. Playing golf with a childhood friend tomorrow. Looking forward to it!

Been considering if I should give W a deadline on making up her mind about the house.
Like 1-2 weeks. If we are going to sell it would be good to get the process started within the next month.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021