H has full custody and that is my reality. The kittens will bring her around more.
Did you sign away custody? If the kittens will lure her to your place more, and you expect her to choose to move-in at some point, it sounds like that may not have happened.. meaning you may have custody rights you can exercise if you want. Maybe a question for your new and improved attorney! I'm confident my custody over my D15 won't drop to zero if my ex-wife gets cats, an ice cream machine, AND a PS4! She'd have a say. She wouldn't decide.
