Wooba, your kids are so lucky to have you as their mom. You're amazing.
Really glad you didn't lose any sleep and are in your zen space. I need to get back there. I like the "if you have something to say, zip it and sleep on it." i need to practice that Any newbies reading this thread, that is SUCH GOOD ADVICE!
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing