Quote: Once, when we were first dating, I told him I had a headache..I really did have one. He told me that 'sex cures a headache' and he set out to prove it...turns out he was right. So, I can't use that excuse.
Uh, PIB... you said you had a headache... and it made your H horny? Then this WOULD be an excuse to use, wouldn't it??? I mean you don't really want to NOT have sex with him, you want him to THINK you don't want to have sex with him, right???
Do you ever shower with your H? What if you did, like he was in there and you were in a hurry or something, so you just HAD to shower with him, but of course were off limits cause you were in a hurry, but you proceed to wash yourself incredibly sensually?? And, shoot, if he is interested, well, you could ACT all pissy but go with the flow?
And WHY do you REALLY have to be off limits during your "week"? Why not indulge, all the while acting as if you are repulsed by it??
What if you initiate, but then don't? Be the tease? Act like you want to, then not, before he rejects you?
I'm too tired. I have to get up early.
but be careful... don't want to upset him.
What does Michelle's book say?
Have fun with it PIB.. play Raiders of the Lost Phallus or something...
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.