Thanks so much, SteveS... I went dark after this weekend’s discovery, but we had to talk (on the phone) about our business and the kids today and I got pulled into a light R talk. I kept calm and detached, but when he came by the house to grab something, he apologized in person for saying mean things and wanted to give me a hug. I’m so uncertain, I don’t really know what to do in these situations, but I allowed it. Then he gave me a little peace offering (something he got in the mail and thought I would like). I accepted it without fanfare, but felt dirty in the Plan B sense. How should I respond in situations like this? When I feel like I am encouraging the Plan B, but not wanting to?
