He’s not officially XH yet, but I've asked my L to begin the divorce paperwork this week as it will be one year since BD/separation on the 5th of June. The government considers the relationship irretrievably broken past that point.
X came to pickup S2 this morning. It wasn’t until I sat down to work that I remembered the date. Today is my wedding anniversary - it would have been the fourth. I nearly forgot, but felt a wash of relief and reflection once it hit me.
I loved being a wife. I did not love being married to X. I loved X. I’m glad I’m not with X. X tried to destroy me. I have no anger or hatred for X any more. All these are true simultaneously.
Last week I posted about two unexpected financial windfalls that occurred following my settlement. Yesterday I received another one! Apparently I overpaid childcare fees this past year so the government has reimbursed me $4000.
Happy anniversary to me What a crazy year it has been. The most important year of my life. I’ve started talking to a local single dad with full time care of his little boy and it makes me excited for the future.
What a crazy year it has been. The most important year of my life. I’ve started talking to a local single dad with full time care of his little boy and it makes me excited for the future.
