Hey May, I've definitely thought about what I would do if that happens, because I know you're right. If he does decide to come back in the bed it won't be some big ceremonious thing. He's just going to go back in there like he was never gone. Since I give the bed up to him on weekends he works (only since quarantine), since he starts at 4am when he does, he's already got an in. He just needs to set up camp and not leave. At this point if that's what does happen I'll just leave it until it's consistent, and then I'll bring it up. He'd have to be in the bed for a week or more before I'd even think about saying anything about it. At that point if he still said nothing, I'd bring it up. I do at some point want to know where he stands. I really do. But I'm kinda happy living in ignorance for the moment. I honestly don't really want to open the can of worms until he makes a real move in either direction. Or until I get sick of limbo.
