The logical side of me says that I need clarity, I need to understand where we're at - even if it's an answer I don't want to hear
Hi Steve, the logical side of you knows where you're at--your wife's on online dating sites exploring options, while continuing to chat with you, to preserve you as a backup plan and friend.
Originally Posted by SteveS
I had two stipulations: that I wouldn't be a Plan B.. "Look, that's a boundary, you're well within your right to say that you're not going to stay in this S if the other is out actively dating". Any insight? I still love her and still want to work it out. Until the day that I don't, this is the road I'm on.
It's up to you where your boundaries are. I believe I'd choose D in your shoes, because being married doesn't mean much if one of you is dating others, but we never know until we're there, huh?
