I'm curious-- why did you leave such a big thing out when posting here? I'm glad you finally feel open to sharing about it and I hope it helps to know that there are so many of us on here that are dealing with As too. Were you worried about what people would say?

It makes sense, fits with his behavior in the fall, also why it might have been harder for him to come back (scared of what he'd done, how you'd take it). Glad that you guys are working through it though-- that's great.


Me (46) H (42)
M:14 T:18, D9 & D11
4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs
9/20 - present: R and piecing