With regards to sharing kids stuff I am not sure I want that tbh.
That is perfectly fine too. Whatever is better for your own mental health! I distanced a lot after separation and especially divorce, but it has changed over time and XW and I share a lot more kid stuff these days. That may happen with you as well, but for now do what gives you the best peace of mind.
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We had brief convo tonight. She made sure to tell me she met up with that girlfriend I mentioned earlier. Whats interesting though is I think she did it to show she wasnt spending time with OM. Dont really understand why and wont analyze it further.
My XW was very, very tight-lipped about OM after S and D. I wouldn't have thought they were even talking, except the kids would mention him being around or going to do something with him now and then. I really didn't care after D, we were no longer married and her life was her own. But it did seem like she went out of her way to keep him a secret.
