Thanks AS! You're right I am making to big of a deal of Instagram. Eventually though I will definitely Mute or Unfollow her.
With regards to sharing kids stuff I am not sure I want that tbh. IT will depend on how I view her and her parenting. If she continues to be very Wayward and cold towards me as well as not the best parent I think I will stay NC forever. Only communication will be absolutley necessary around kids, and that will be less and less over the years. Time will tell.
We had brief convo tonight. She made sure to tell me she met up with that girlfriend I mentioned earlier. Whats interesting though is I think she did it to show she wasnt spending time with OM. Dont really understand why and wont analyze it further.
I asked her if she had thought more about the house (For those who may not have followed, few weeks back she wanted me to "buy her out" asap and now she seems to have changed her mind.) She looked abit shocked and said: No. I dont think about things when they are heavy/tough (not sure what best transalation is). I said, Thats a good strategy. She laughed. Basically ended by saying she needs to think about it so we get clarity for the kids and for eachother.
ATM she is in the cabin.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021