Mumin, the IG thing is purely your choice. If it makes you spin every time she posts something then "mute" her account. You can mute posts or stories or both. If they are muted then you will not see them unless you specifically go to her account. She will not know that you muted her, as opposed to blocking her which she will know. Your marriage isn't going to survive or fail based on stuff like this, it's not significant. We typically say to avoid contact but that's to help you move on more than anything.
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Same sort of question though about pictures/vidoes shes been sending of the kids when she has them and I am away for some reason. Typically I view them and dont answer at all or something like "they're the best!"
I think that's fine. She's probably just doing it to help you adjust to not having the kids all the time, which is actually pretty kind of her. You might reciprocate when you have the kids.
