Greetings Peoples!

This is what I suggested to Freckles:

First, have you checked out the "Just For Fun" forum?

There is a thread I started over there called "Little things to boost the PMA". Definately check that out.

I love making lists, so I suggest you print out all the great ideas on that thread, make a list and start trying 3 new ideas a week.

Then I suggest you created a second list of the new things you've tried and loved!

Another suggestion I can give you came from the book called "Simple Abundance" by Sarah Ban Breathnach.

She suggests cutting out pictures from magazines of things you want to manifest in your life.

I did this with a group of friends. We each brought whatever magazines we had and shared them. Then we each went through the magazines cutting out whatever pictures appealed to us. We pasted our pictures onto posters and then hung them up in our homes.

I had created mine before Husband and I separated. I took it with me when I moved into my parents house. And I accomplished almost every single picture on that poster.

I found that having that visual to look at every day really helped me stay focused on the sort of life I wanted to create.


My previous threads:

Phoenix In Training

He Upgraded our Date to Dinner and a Movie! Now What?

Would you want to know?

Staying Focused!

Wow! This is where I belong!

Time to Start Living

I Received 2 kisses and a call the next morning!

My Monkey is reading Divorce Remedy!

Meet In the Middle

HomeWarming Party for Phoenix In Bloom

Solid As a Rock, Safe Within the Harbor

It's the little things that count!

Be Like a Bird!

I Believe Something Wonderful Is Going to Happen to Me Today!

Blooming Blossoms; Sprouting Seeds

Transforming into a Pillar of Strength!

Quick Summary:

Husband and I have been married for 8 years.

He is 30 years old, I am 29.

I believe for the first 6 years I was clincally depressed.

We separated for 16 months. I went on Zoloft, got my life back, weaned off of Zoloft. We began dating again. He noticed my changes, he read Divorce Remedy and after much stalling and fear on his part, agreed to reconcile.

We've been living together again since Oct 2003.

We've hit rough patches, but I believe, thanks to DBing, we've learned the tools to have a healthy relationship.

I'm still posting to the BB because I know I'm still going to hit rough patches and I'm not ready to stop asking for help yet.

Hugs all.


PIB