Wayfarer, good to read your updates and that you don’t try and second guess what’s in his head. I do that far too much and it’s exhausting. It is bizarre he doesn’t want to sleep in the same bed, and I guess you haven’t asked him to as that might be seen as pressure/pursuit? Do you feel as if he’s continuing to lean in a little more?


M:49 H:49
T:20 M:18
D:16 D:14

EA: Feb 2019-May 2020
Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020
H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020
EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020
Recon #2: since Nov 2020