Wayfarer, good to read your updates and that you don’t try and second guess what’s in his head. I do that far too much and it’s exhausting. It is bizarre he doesn’t want to sleep in the same bed, and I guess you haven’t asked him to as that might be seen as pressure/pursuit? Do you feel as if he’s continuing to lean in a little more?
M:49 H:49 T:20 M:18 D:16 D:14
EA: Feb 2019-May 2020 Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020 H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020 EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020 Recon #2: since Nov 2020