I am not sure, the Xw doesn’t have any family close, they are in Cali so maybe just anyone else in general. It worries me a bit as well, thought about letting the Xw know but ended up not doing it. Not shocking though as the Xw could only handle the kids in small doses so I could see her getting frustrated.
At this juncture I don’t feel as though they are being told something different. When the time comes I will let them know also my role as well. Even though she tapped out, the truth is that we just grew apart, she realized it before I did, and we didn’t have the tools to work through it. When she finally got to the point to say something directly she was soo far gone nothing was going to stop it from happening.
