Originally Posted by kml
Take a page from dog training manuals - ignore the bad behaviors, reward the good ones.

Go about your day AS IF you were happy and content ( even if you aren’t ). Be proactive, don’t be reactive to his moods.

Haha! This is excellent Kml! I’ve recently fallen into a sink hole and my positive behaviour has gone with it.

I ABSOLUTELY have been reactive and this is exactly what has me feeling “off”. Thank you so much for adding to my page and reading through my jumbled words to offer your help and help me see a little clearer.
I will flip my script again and get back to being me!!!! Re-reading my last few posts has made me realize I’m spending too much of my time and energy on his behaviour again.

K.