Yeah, this mindset is counter productive. Still have not figured out how to shut it off.
That is perhaps the hardest part in these sitchs, battling our own mindsets. No one in my family has divorced less a distant cousin on my father's side. I grew up thinking divorce isnt even part of most peoples vocabulary. Naive on my end.
It sounds like you're having a tough time. Keep pushing on for your children and grandchildren. They need someone to look up to.
H37, W37 D4, S2 ILYBNILWY 9/19 BD 9/19 EA discovered 10/19 Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated
