I know it means nothing, but quite the difference from 10 months ago right after BD when she couldn't even be anywhere near me and needed to take medication for her blood pressure and anxiety.
Right.....and some LBH's want to read a "sign" into the lack of drama his W usually brings with her.
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As far how I've been doing, I would say fairly well, all things considered. I work out regularly and have kept the weight off. I am on the cusp of a promotion at work, too. I have no idea where this will end up, but I am doing all I can to make sure I am in a better place, no matter what happens.
I think that's great! It means you are living the best you can, without depending upon her and whatever she decides. Does that make sense? You don't need her in order to keep your weight off. You don't need her to get a promotion at work. These are the things I think a lot of fresh newcomers have trouble seeing. Maybe you could help some LBH's on the board who are not as far down the road as you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
