LH19, thank you for the added perspective. Certainly helps to understand my thoughts. I will say I have no illusions she has done a horrible thing, and it would take a tremendous amount of work to restore our relationship. I hope if she ever did turn around, I remain strong and don't just turn into a doormat. If that ever did happen I would certainly keep looking to the guidance of this forum!
Originally Posted by LH19
Another illusion is your statement is you "love your wife". If you truly loved her you would honor her decision to move on and find happiness elsewhere.
I have trouble with many things haha, but this one in particular has been hard to deal with. If she made a decision to move on and find happiness, then so be it I suppose. However, here we are seven months later, and we are still married. A few weeks ago when the bill payment thing came up and she broke our 6 week streak of no contact she even told me most of the time she is just sad and/or mad. It's just frustrating, if she wants to move on, then go for it, I'm not stopping her, but she sure seems to just do nothing, and she doesn't really give off the impression she is happy either.
