Hi sandi,

I really appreciate that you check in on all of us smile

So I know if you read back through my thread my emotions sure are a roller coaster. I feel like lately I’ve started to just accept that whatever happens is going to happen. I’m just working the best I can on my patience.

I still don’t quite understand why, given that I’ve been cheated on and just sort of tossed aside, but I still hope for reconciliation. I keep trying to remember my own faults as well, and I really do love my wife. I’ve come across a saying, “she is a good person that has done a bad thing”.

There still hasn’t really been any movement toward fixing things or a divorce. I’ve remained no contact, so still just going on the last thing that happened with her, which was finding out she was looking at houses with this other guy. We are still married, he is still married, so as of right now I don’t think they really could buy a house. It feels like they are just sort of in a fantasy land. Anyway, it’s really none of my concern.

So I guess to sum up, I’m doing good, but nothing really new to report as far as our marriage is concerned.