Hi Paco, I'm going to ask you a silly question--when did you feel you validated her? What does validation mean to you? Validation's an interesting topic so often confused with agreement, there's a whole thread on here trying to differentiate the two! On a 1-10 scale, how would you self-score, "I calmly told her I miss them same or more but that I understand what for her is now stability and routine"?
