Paco, I'm not one of the experts here so I avoid giving clear advice except for maybe mentioning what has worked for me in this process. But didn't you just tell her, in other words, that you will be there for her and take her back when and if she ever feels like it? The vets can correct me if I'm wrong but to me this conversation you had sounded like you let her know that you will be her plan B forever and that is not a good position to be in. The conversation also sounds like it's way too long.


Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019