Thanks LH and Ginger! Have ignored and will take my mind of W for the remainder of the weekend (with kids:)). Found the Zeus thread and will def read it all. Great tip LH! I am definitely considering BPD. Highly increased sex drive (see below) can be one of the "symptoms" of Mania. If it is BPD she is going through depression now, with lots of sadness.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
Wasn’t it you who recently found butt plugs in your trash??
Yup, that was me. Sometimes use that to "wake myself up" but it mostly brings anger (vs true DB).
Last edited by Mumin; 05/15/2012:28 PM.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021