Talked to my coach today. I asked about revisiting a conversation to show some understanding. I asked if it was okay, or if you should let it go once you're out of the moment. He said the goal is in the moment, but with the situation amd her not really speaking to me, it might be beneficial.
So, I tried to reach out and offer some understanding. I started by telling her I appreciated her honesty in telling me why she changed her mind on some of the assets (she wanted to take back everything she had ever given me). And I told her I recognized that she invested a lot of time and money and things didn't work as expected and now with the Buyout it must be hard.
She came back and basically just went on a mini rant of nonsense. I never would have married someone if I thought they had the mindset she displayed. Not sure if that was just her emotions speaking.
I just told her I could understand how she might see things that way (I really can't...not in any way) and that I probably didn't explain my perspective, or where I'm coming from, very well and left it at that.
