LH, man that feeling when you're done with P90X plyometrics. Sweating all over and exhausted, love it! You just feel great the entire day afterwards.
I would assume I'm quite detached. So far I've been through her cheating, seeing her with another man walking down the street and having no contact for many months. And I'm doing quite well. I think she has a long way to go still and for that reason, I would prefer to play the long game as you say. Everything that has happened lately I think means she misses me but it could also be strongly influenced by her wanting to have me around as plan B still. In general, she has always been scared to take the first step. But when and if the time is right, I might suggest something like that.
AS, I agree, I will see how the next few months play out. I'm in no hurry to make any decisions either.
M, thanks, I don't do crossfit so I wouldn't know. My focus is on building muscle mass right now without adding unnecessary body fat. Business is paused until next year to begin with so we'll see but financially, I'm ok.
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019