Doing my thing & keeping a smile

[may22]

Hey Wooba,

You sound great. Really great. Calm, compassionate, focused on what is important, not letting the other stuff get to you. I'm glad you had a great Mother's Day... hearing those little people planning a secret surprise is the BEST, isn't it?

I do have one question. Why are you going with him to visit his parents? Can't he do that by himself? It just seems like this might be one of those opportunities for him to start to understand the things that will change when you D. (If it were me, because I lack self-control in this area, and my H came by to talk to me about splitting finances and then said let's go visit my parents together, I KNOW I would be like h3ll no, at least inside.)

I mean, he still has a pretty sweet setup. Has he started doing his own laundry yet?

Hang in there!!