Hi SteveS,

Originally Posted by SteveS
We talk about every other week, usually under the pretense of something logistical, and it ends up being a hourlong conversation

I'm curious why you're having these hour-long conversations.

You say you aren't fooling yourself into believing they lead back towards a romantic relationship. Okay. Is your idea that you enjoy having her as a buddy? Is that a relationship that would work for you even if/when she looks elsewhere for a romantic connection? Just trying to understand where your head's at.

Originally Posted by SteveS
She has made no movement towards D or legal separation, and I refuse to do so until the day I wake up and realize that is what I want.

Makes sense. You don't want D, and delaying D maximizes her options.