Sage-
Just a question for you - in your earlier days of rebuilding with your H, did you ever have trouble with huge blasts of fear about IT happening again, that just left you parlyzed with terror?

I am not trying to bring you back to those days, just trying to see if this is a normal part of healing from infidelity.
Thanks for any input, and I am so glad to read how well your sitch is going.
Myrrh


One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.