Benny B,

I’m also using the P90X dvds to get through this difficult time.

You are kinda in a tough spot so a lot probably depends on your detachment.

If you’re super detached then you can play the long game with her.

If you’re not I would invite over and tell her to pick up a bottle wine. Late nature take its course. If she shoots you down then make it clear you are not interested in a friendship.