Husband Living a Double Life

[Oceangl]

Hello, everyone. I need some advice or perspective on my situation.

I accepted a promotion and will be moving 2.5 hours away. My H invited himself to go view some apartments with me. I didn't agree but I also didn't tell him no........

Question: Why would a man who has OW and wants a D, want to spend the entire day with me looking at apartments? He seems to be pretty involved in my life for someone who wants a D.

Any thoughts?

My first feeling is that there is a part of him that is still committed to making sure you are provided for and safe. Something interesting to be curious about for sure. Perhaps the men can give an insight here.