Through The Storm IV

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W had gotten to a point of exhaustion with AP. She felt like her AP wanted more from her than she was willing to give.

That doesn't seem like the best thing really.

Why is her heart broken? Shouldn't she be happy that she got you back?

I told her it would mean a lot to helping me heal if she would start to get rid of all of the little gifts and such from AP that are still around the house. She responded with "I left her and I'm with you, that should be enough"

I don't think you should tolerate anything like this. Throw that @#$% out! If it hurts your W's feelings so bad then she can leave but why would you subject yourself to these reminders of their affair?

I snapped back pretty harshly asking if she "wanted a cookie for not sleeping with her girlfriend". Not my best move - but that rush of anger is so hard to push down sometimes.

Not your worst either, and a fair question.

I would go very slowly KG. And keep those expectations low on this. Who knows where her head really is. I hope you are still working on you, still doing some GAL, still growing.