In a situation like Pommy's and like mine, I just have to work on falling in love with myself as you suggest. Being there for myself. When you are yearning for affection, I think we have to realize that in a big way we can provide that affection. Is it the same? No. But let's be honest, they haven't treated us very well. We have to be able to depend on ourselves.
me: 46 h: 49 m: 24 T: 27 DD1:20 DD2:17 DS:12 BD1: PA for 2 yrs 08/2016 BD2: OW is one of my closest friends 12/2016 BD3: H wants a D 11/2019 Now: He is in the same house, but has filed for divorce.
