May! I just caught up on your sitch and I see what you mean about your H having a lot of similarities. I'm so glad things are going well for you guys (and I second Cardinal's thoughts about the playlist)! It was helpful to read about the WS deleting things from the AP in their own time and how it would be more meaningful for them to do that of their own accord instead of as a requirement or obligation. Framing it that way takes the sting out of some of it.
I can't imagine how hard it must be to not be able to talk about it with H. I mean, it's not like we talk about it everyday, but once a week or so we have a convo about how we each are feeling and or dealing with all the baggage surrounding. Sometimes I think that it would be easier not to hear about WS heartache, but I think if we can stay calm and validate their feelings it could bring some comfort.
I bet you are SOOO ready for this pandemic to end. Being stuck in the house with a WFH situation and all the kids would drive me insane! Hopefully soon.
((May))
KG
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