I want to start out by saying I have nothing but compassion for what you are going through but I would be doing you a disservice if I didn't call you out on some of your thought patterns.
Originally Posted by unchien
I'm living alone, during a quarantine, in a medium-to-high conflict divorce, hemorrhaging money, not knowing where my life is going to end up even in the next 3 months. It's reasonable that I would be struggling.
Guess what U I have all the same things going on but my D is over. I will bet you have a way better job then me and that you are younger. You are hemorrhaging money because you moved out when we told you not to do it. You are hemorrhaging money because you won't push the D through. Fade told you 6-8 months ago that this was going to happen and you chose to ignore it. I have know idea where my life is going to end up 3 months from now. None of us do. You have to stop playing the victim U.